SCHEDULE 14A
                                 (RULE 14A-101)
                     INFORMATION REQUIRED IN PROXY STATEMENT
                            SCHEDULE 14A INFORMATION
           PROXY STATEMENT PURSUANT TO SECTION 14(A) OF THE SECURITIES
                   EXCHANGE ACT OF 1934 (AMENDMENT NO. _____ )


     FILED  BY  THE  REGISTRANT                           [X]

     FILED  BY  A  PARTY  OTHER  THAN  THE  REGISTRANT    [ ]

     CHECK  THE  APPROPRIATE  BOX:

     [ ]   PRELIMINARY  PROXY  STATEMENT

     [X]   DEFINITIVE  PROXY  STATEMENT

     [ ]   DEFINITIVE  ADDITIONAL  MATERIALS

     [ ]   SOLICITING  MATERIAL  PURSUANT  TO  RULE  14A-11(C)  OR  RULE  14A-12


                                NBT Bancorp Inc.
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                 (NAME OF REGISTRANT AS SPECIFIED IN ITS CHARTER)

                               Michael J. Chewens
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     (NAME OF PERSON(S) FILING PROXY STATEMENT, IF OTHER THAN THE REGISTRANT)

PAYMENT  OF  FILING  FEE  (CHECK  THE  APPROPRIATE  BOX):

     [X]   NO  FEE  REQUIRED

     [ ]   FEE COMPUTED ON TABLE BELOW PER EXCHANGE ACT RULES 14A-6(I)(1)
           AND 0-11.

     (1)     TITLE  OF  EACH  CLASS  OF SECURITIES TO WHICH TRANSACTION APPLIES:

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     (2)     AGGREGATE  NUMBER  OF  SECURITIES  TO  WHICH  TRANSACTION  APPLIES:

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     (3)     PER  UNIT  PRICE  OR OTHER UNDERLYING VALUE OF TRANSACTION COMPUTED
PURSUANT TO EXCHANGE ACT RULE 0-11 (SET FORTH THE AMOUNT ON WHICH THE FILING FEE
IS  CALCULATED  AND  STATE  HOW  IT  WAS  DETERMINED):

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     [ ]     FEE  PAID  PREVIOUSLY  WITH  PRELIMINARY  MATERIALS

     [ ]     CHECK BOX IF ANY PART OF THE FEE IS OFFSET AS PROVIDED BY EXCHANGE
ACT  RULE  0-11(A)(2)  AND  IDENTIFY THE FILING FOR WHICH THE OFFSETTING FEE WAS
PAID  PREVIOUSLY. IDENTIFY THE PREVIOUS FILING BY REGISTRATION STATEMENT NUMBER,
OR  THE  FORM  OR  SCHEDULE  AND  THE  DATE  OF  FILING.

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                                NBT BANCORP INC.
                              52 SOUTH BROAD STREET
                            NORWICH, NEW YORK 13815

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

NBT  Bancorp  Inc.  ("NBT"),  will hold an annual meeting of stockholders at the
Binghamton  Regency at One Sarbro Square, Binghamton, NY 13901 on May 4, 2004 at
10:00  a.m.  local  time  for  the  following  purposes:

1.   To fix the size of the Board of Directors at sixteen;
2.   To elect five directors, each for a three year term; and
3.   To  transact such other business as may properly come before the NBT annual
     meeting.

We  have  fixed  the  close of business on March 15, 2004 as the record date for
determining those stockholders of NBT entitled to vote at the NBT annual meeting
and  any adjournments or postponements of the meeting. Only holders of record of
NBT common stock at the close of business on that date are entitled to notice of
and  to  vote  at  the  NBT  annual  meeting.

By Order of the Board of Directors of NBT Bancorp Inc.


/s/  Daryl  R.  Forsythe
-----------------------------------------------------
Daryl R. Forsythe
Chairman and Chief Executive Officer


Norwich, New York
March 31, 2004


IT  IS  IMPORTANT  THAT  YOUR SHARES BE REPRESENTED REGARDLESS OF THE NUMBER YOU
OWN.  EVEN  IF YOU PLAN TO BE PRESENT, YOU ARE URGED TO COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND
RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY CARD PROMPTLY IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED OR VOTE VIA THE
TOLL-FREE TELEPHONE NUMBER OR VIA THE INTERNET ADDRESS LISTED ON THE PROXY CARD.
YOU  MAY REVOKE ANY PROXY GIVEN IN WRITING OR IN PERSON AT ANY TIME PRIOR TO THE
VOTE  AT  THE  ANNUAL  MEETING.



                                NBT BANCORP INC.
                              52 SOUTH BROAD STREET
                            NORWICH, NEW YORK 13815

                                PROXY STATEMENT

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

                                  MAY 4, 2004

This  proxy  statement  and  accompanying  proxy  card  are  being  sent  to the
stockholders of NBT Bancorp Inc. ("NBT" or the "Company") in connection with the
solicitation  of  proxies  on behalf of the Board of Directors to be used at the
annual meeting of stockholders. This proxy statement, together with the enclosed
proxy card, is being mailed to stockholders on or about March 31, 2004.

WHEN AND WHERE THE NBT ANNUAL MEETING WILL BE HELD

We will hold our annual meeting of stockholders at the Binghamton Regency at One
Sarbro  Square,  Binghamton,  NY  13901 on May 4, 2004 at 10:00 a.m. local time.

WHAT WILL BE VOTED ON AT THE NBT ANNUAL MEETING

At  our annual meeting, our stockholders will be asked to consider and vote upon
the  following  proposals:

     -    To  fix  the  size  of  the  Board  of  Directors  at  sixteen;
     -    To  elect five  directors,  each  for  a  three  year  term;  and
     -    To  transact  such  other business as may properly come before the NBT
          annual  meeting.

     We  may  take  action  on the above matters at our annual meeting on May 4,
2004,  or  on  any  later  date  to  which  the  annual  meeting is postponed or
adjourned.
     We  are  unaware  of other matters to be voted on at our annual meeting. If
other  matters  do  properly  come  before  our  annual  meeting,  including
consideration  of  a motion to adjourn the annual meeting to another time and/or
place  for  such  purpose  of  soliciting additional proxies, we intend that the
persons  named  in this proxy will vote the shares represented by the proxies on
such matters as determined by a majority of the Company's Board.

STOCKHOLDERS  ENTITLED  TO  VOTE

We  have  set  March  15,  2004,  as  the  record date to determine which of our
stockholders  will  be  entitled  to  vote  at  our  annual  meeting. Only those
stockholders who held their shares of record as of the close of business on that
date will be entitled to receive notice of and to vote at our annual meeting. As
of March 15, 2004, there were 32,870,204 outstanding shares of our common stock.
Each  of  our stockholders on the record date is entitled to one vote per share.

VOTE  REQUIRED  TO  APPROVE  THE  PROPOSAL

A plurality of the shares of our common stock represented at our annual meeting,
either  in  person  or by proxy, and entitled to vote at our annual meeting will
elect  directors.  This  means that the five nominees who receive the most votes
will  be  elected.
     The  affirmative  vote  of  a  majority  of  the shares of our common stock
represented at our annual meeting, either in person or by proxy, and entitled to
vote at our annual meeting is required to approve the proposal to fix the number
of  directors  at  sixteen.
     Our  Board  urges  our  stockholders  to  complete,  date  and  sign  the
accompanying  proxy and return it promptly in the enclosed postage-paid envelope
or  to  vote  by  telephone  or  via  the Internet. Broker non-votes will not be
counted as a vote cast or entitled to vote on any matter presented at the annual
meeting.  Abstentions  will  be  counted  in  determining  the  number of shares
represented  and  entitled  to  vote.

NUMBER OF SHARES THAT MUST BE REPRESENTED FOR A VOTE TO BE TAKEN

In  order  to  have  a  quorum,  a  majority  of  the  total voting power of our
outstanding  shares  of common stock entitled to vote at our annual meeting must
be  represented  at the annual meeting either in person or by proxy. Abstentions
and  broker  non-votes


2                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

are  counted  as present for the purpose of determining the presence of a quorum
for  the  transaction  of  business.

VOTING  YOUR  SHARES

Our  Board  is  soliciting  proxies from our stockholders. This will give you an
opportunity  to  vote at our annual meeting. When you deliver a valid proxy, the
shares  represented  by  that proxy will be voted by a named agent in accordance
with  your  instructions.
     If  you  are a record holder and vote by proxy but make no specification on
your  proxy  card that you have otherwise properly executed, the named agent may
vote  the  shares  represented  by  your  proxy:

     -    FOR  fixing  the  number  of  directors  at  sixteen;  and
     -    FOR electing the five persons nominated by our Board as directors.

     If  your  common stock is held by a broker, bank or other nominee (i.e., in
"street  name"),  you  should receive instructions from that person or entity in
order  to  have your shares of common stock voted. If you hold your common stock
in  your  own  name  and  not through a broker or other nominee, you may grant a
proxy  by  dating, signing and mailing your proxy card or by voting by telephone
or via the Internet. You may also cast your vote in person at the meeting.

MAIL.  To  grant  your  proxy by mail, please complete your proxy card and sign,
date  and return it in the enclosed envelope. To be valid, a returned proxy card
must  be  signed  and  dated.

TELEPHONE.  If  you  hold  NBT  common  stock in your own name and not through a
broker  or  other  nominee,  you  can  vote  your  shares of NBT common stock by
telephone  by  dialing  the toll-free telephone number 1-800-690-6903. Telephone
voting  is  available 24 hours a day until 11:59 p.m. local time on May 3, 2004.
Telephone  voting  procedures are designed to authenticate stockholders by using
the individual control numbers on your proxy card. If you vote by telephone, you
do  not  need  to  return  your  proxy  card.

VIA  THE INTERNET. If you hold NBT common stock in your own name and not through
a  broker  or  other  nominee,  you  can  vote  your  shares of NBT common stock
electronically  via  the  Internet  at  www.proxyvote.com.  Internet  voting  is
available  24  hours  a day until 11:59 p.m. local time on May 3, 2004. Internet
voting  procedures  are  designed  to  authenticate  stockholders  by  using the
individual control numbers on your proxy card. If you vote via the Internet, you
do  not  need  to  return  your  proxy  card.

IN  PERSON. If you attend the annual meeting in person, you may vote your shares
by  completing  a  ballot  at  the  meeting.

Attendance  at  the annual meeting will not by itself be sufficient to vote your
shares; you still must complete and submit a ballot at the annual meeting.

CHANGING  YOUR  VOTE

Any  NBT  stockholder  of record giving a proxy may revoke the proxy at any time
before the vote at the annual meeting in one or more of the following ways:

     -    Delivering  a  written  notice  of  revocation  to the Chief Executive
          Officer  of  NBT  bearing  a  later  date  than  the  proxy;

     -    Submitting a later dated proxy by mail, telephone or via the Internet;
          or

     -    Appearing  in  person  and submitting a later dated proxy or voting at
          the  annual  meeting.  Attendance  at  the  annual meeting will not by
          itself  constitute  a revocation of a proxy; to revoke your proxy, you
          must  complete  and  submit a ballot at the annual meeting or submit a
          later  dated  proxy.

You  should  send  any  written  notice of revocation or subsequent proxy to NBT
Bancorp  Inc.,  52 South Broad Street, Norwich, New York 13815, Attention: Chief
Executive  Officer, or hand deliver the notice of revocation or subsequent proxy
to the Chief Executive Officer at or before the taking of the vote at the annual
meeting.  You  may  also  revoke  your proxy by telephone or via the Internet by
giving a new proxy over the telephone or the Internet prior to 11:59 p.m. on May
3,  2004.

SOLICITATION  OF  PROXIES  AND  COSTS

We will bear our own costs of soliciting of proxies. We will reimburse brokerage
houses,  fiduciaries,  nominees  and  others for their out-of-pocket expenses in
forwarding proxy materials to owners of shares of our common stock held in their
names.  In  addition  to  the solicitation of proxies by use of the mail, we may
solicit  proxies  from  our  stockholders  by  directors, Officers and employees
acting  on  our  behalf in person or by telephone, telegraph, facsimile or other
appropriate  means  of  communications.  We  will  not  pay  any  additional
compensation,  except for reimbursement of reasonable out-of-pocket expenses, to
our  directors,  Officers and employees in connection with the solicitation. You
may  direct  any  questions  or  requests  for  assistance  regarding this proxy
statement  to  Michael  J.  Chewens,  Senior Executive Vice President of NBT, by
telephone at (607) 337-6520 or by e-mail at mjchewens@nbtbci.com.

     REGARDLESS  OF  THE NUMBER OF SHARES YOU OWN, YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT TO US.
PLEASE  COMPLETE,  SIGN, DATE AND PROMPTLY RETURN THE ACCOMPANYING PROXY CARD IN
THE  ENCLOSED  POSTAGE-PAID  ENVELOPE  OR  VOTE BY TELEPHONE OR VIA THE INTERNET
USING THE TELEPHONE NUMBER OR THE INTERNET ADDRESS ON YOUR PROXY CARD.


3                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

PROPOSAL 1
SIZE OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS
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Our  Bylaws  provide  for  a Board consisting of a number of directors, not less
than  five nor more than twenty-five, as shall be designated by our stockholders
as  of each annual meeting. Our Board is presently comprised of sixteen members.
The Board has proposed that the stockholders vote to fix the number of directors
constituting  the  full  Board  at  sixteen  members.

THE  BOARD OF DIRECTORS UNANIMOUSLY RECOMMENDS THAT STOCKHOLDERS VOTE FOR FIXING
THE  SIZE  OF  THE  BOARD  OF  DIRECTORS  AT  SIXTEEN  MEMBERS.


PROPOSAL  2
ELECTION  OF  DIRECTORS
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At the annual meeting, five directors will be elected to serve a three-year term
and  until  the  director's  successor  is  elected  and  qualified or until the
director's  earlier  death, resignation or removal. The Board currently consists
of sixteen members and is divided into three classes. The term of only one class
of directors expires in each year, and their successors are elected for terms of
up  to three years and until their successors are elected and qualified. Messrs.
Forsythe, Gumble, Owens, Robinson, and Ms. Civil, whose terms expire at the 2004
annual meeting, have been nominated to stand for re-election at the 2004 annual
meeting for terms expiring in 2007. As of February 23, 2004, Mr. Gene Goldenziel
resigned  from  the Board of Directors of the Company to commit more time to his
law  practice.

     The  persons  named  in the enclosed proxy intend to vote the shares of our
common  stock represented by each proxy properly executed and returned to us FOR
election  of  the following nominees as directors, but if the nominees should be
unable  to  serve,  they will vote such proxies for those substitute nominees as
our Board shall designate to replace those nominees who are unable to serve. Our
Board  currently  believes  that  each nominee will stand for election and will
serve  if elected as a director. Assuming the presence of a quorum at the annual
meeting,  directors  will  be  elected  by a plurality of the votes cast by the
shares  of  common  stock  entitled to vote at the annual meeting and present in
person  or  represented  by proxy. There are no cumulative voting rights in the
election  of  directors.  This means that the five nominees who receive the most
votes  will  be  elected. The names of the nominees for election for the term as
shown,  our  continuing directors and certain information as to each of them are
as  follows:



                                                                                                     NUMBER OF
                                                                                                 COMMON SHARES
                                            PRINCIPAL OCCUPATION                                  BENEFICIALLY          PERCENT
                                            DURING PAST FIVE YEARS AND                   DIRECTOR        OWNED        OF SHARES
NAME                                   AGE  OTHER DIRECTORSHIPS                          SINCE     ON 12/31/03      OUTSTANDING
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NOMINEES WITH TERMS EXPIRING IN 2007:

Daryl R. Forsythe                       60  Chairman and CEO of NBT since                    1992       67,225(1)            *
                                              January 2004; Chairman of NBT Bank                      1,511(1)(a)            *
                                              since January 2004; Chairman, President                10,930(1)(b)            *
                                              and CEO of NBT from April 2001 to                          8,718(2)            *
                                              December 2003; Chairman and CEO                          228,171(4)            *
                                              of NBT Bank from September 1999 to
                                              December 2003; President and CEO
                                              of NBT and NBT Bank from January
                                              1995 to April 2001/September 1999
                                            Directorships:
                                              Security Mutual Life Ins. Co. of NY
                                              New York Bankers Association
                                              NBT Bank since 1988

William C. Gumble                       66  Retired attorney-at-law; County                  2000       99,393(1)            *
                                              Solicitor and District Attorney of Pike                    2,700(3)            *
                                              County, PA
                                            Directorships:
                                              Pennstar Bank since 1985


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William L. Owens                        54  Partner, Harris Beach LLP, attorneys             1999        4,806(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                               2,676(3)            *
                                              Champlain Enterprises, Inc.
                                              Prim Hall Enterprises
                                              Mediquest, Inc.
                                              Community Providers, Inc.
                                              Adirondack Digital Imaging Systems Inc.
                                              NBT Bank since 1995

Van Ness D. Robinson                    68  Chairman/Secretary-New York                      2001        2,472(1)            *
                                              Central Mutual Fire Insurance Co. (NYCM)                 888,471(d)         2.71%
                                            Directorships:                                               1,500(3)            *
                                              NYCM
                                              Basset Healthcare
                                              Bruce Hall Corporation
                                              Central National Bank since 1997

Patricia T. Civil                       54  Retired Managing Partner, Pricewaterhouse        2003        1,196(1)            *
                                             Coopers LLP
                                            Directorships:
                                              Rosamond Gifford Charitable Foundation
                                              Visiting Nurses Association of Central
                                              New York
                                              NBT Bank since 2003

CONTINUING DIRECTORS WITH TERMS EXPIRING IN 2006:

Andrew S. Kowalczyk, Jr.                68  Partner, Kowalczyk, Tolles & Deery, LLP,         1994        6,858(1)            *
                                            attorneys                                                    3,150(3)            *
                                            Directorships:
                                              Trenton Technology Inc.
                                              NBT Bank since 1994

John C. Mitchell                        53  President and CEO of I.L. Richer Co.             1994       19,326(1)            *
                                             (agri. business)                                            5,097(2)            *
                                            Directorships:                                               3,064(3)            *
                                              Preferred Mutual Ins. Co.                                164,041(c)            *
                                              New York Agricultural Development Corp.
                                              NBT Bank since 1993

Joseph G. Nasser                        46  Accountant, Nasser & Co.                         2000       35,946(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                              11,449(2)            *
                                              Pennstar Bank since 1999                                   2,676(3)            *

Michael H. Hutcherson                   41  President, The Colonial Agency LLC               2002        1,243(1)            *
                                             (insurance services)                                        2,532(1)(a)         *
                                            Directorships:                                                 801(2)            *
                                              Central National Bank since 2002                             400(3)            *

Michael M. Murphy                       42  President & Owner, Red Line Towing Inc.          2002        3,108(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                            1,095(1)(a)            *
                                              Pennstar Bank since 1999                                  38,601(2)            *
                                                                                                         1,300(3)            *

CONTINUING DIRECTORS WITH TERMS EXPIRING IN 2005:

Richard Chojnowski                      61  Electrical contractor (sole proprietorship)      2000        1,999(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                             264,353(2)            *
                                              Pennstar Bank since 1994                                   2,700(3)            *

Dr. Peter B. Gregory                    68  Partner, Gatehouse Antiques                      1987      109,256(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                           43,856(1)(a)            *
                                              NBT Bank since 1978                                        2,700(3)            *


5                                                                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

Paul O. Stillman                        70  Chairman of Preferred Mutual Ins. Co. (c)        1986       27,359(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                           11,500(1)(a)            *
                                              Preferred Mutual Ins. Co.                                  1,543(2)            *
                                              Leatherstocking Cooperative Ins. Co.                       2,700(3)            *
                                              NBT Bank since 1977                                      164,041(c)            *

Joseph A. Santangelo                    51  Administrator-Arkell Hall Foundation Inc.        2001        3,863(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                               6,553(2)            *
                                              Central National Bank since 1991                           1,650(3)            *

Janet H. Ingraham                       66  Professional Volunteer                           2002        9,402(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                              521(1)(a)            *
                                              Chase Memorial Nursing Home Corp.                            792(3)            *
                                              NBT Bank since 1996

Paul D. Horger                          66  Partner, Oliver, Price & Rhodes, attorneys       2002       11,775(1)            *
                                            Directorships:                                               1,300(3)            *
                                              Pennstar Bank since 1997
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6                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.



EXECUTIVE OFFICERS OF NBT BANCORP INC. OTHER THAN DIRECTORS WHO ARE OFFICERS:

                                                                                                      NUMBER OF
                                                                                                  COMMON SHARES
                                                                                                    BENEFICIALLY        PERCENT
                                                     PRESENT POSITION AND                                  OWNED      OF SHARES
NAME                                        AGE      PRINCIPAL POSITION DURING PAST FIVE YEARS       ON 12/31/03    OUTSTANDING
--------------------------------------  -----------  -------------------------------------------  --------------  -----------
                                                                                                      

Michael J. Chewens                              42   Senior Executive Vice President, Chief               565(1)            *
                                                       Financial Officer of NBT and                     5,970(1)(b)         *
                                                       NBT Bank since January                          84,091(4)            *
                                                       2002; EVP of same 1999-2001;
                                                       Secretary of NBT and NBT Bank
                                                       since December 2000;
                                                       Senior Vice President Risk Management,
                                                       1995-1999

Martin A. Dietrich                              48   President of NBT since January 2004;               8,332(1)            *
                                                       President and CEO of NBT Bank since                848(1)(a)         *
                                                       January 2004; President and Chief Operating     18,650(1)(b)         *
                                                       Officer of NBT Bank from September 1999          8,943(2)            *
                                                       to December 2003; Executive Vice President     145,451(4)            *
                                                       of Retail Banking 1998-1999                      7,000(e)            *

David E. Raven                                  41   President and Chief Operating Officer              8,359(1)            *
                                                       of Pennstar Bank Division since August           4,771(1)(b)         *
                                                       2000; Senior Vice President of Sales and        63,412(4)            *
                                                       Administration, September 1999-
                                                       August 2000; Retail Sales Manager
                                                       1996-1999
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As  of  December 31, 2003, all Directors and Executive Officers listed above as a group beneficially owned 2,480,670 or 7.57%
of  total  shares  outstanding,  including  shares  owned  by  spouses,  certain relatives and trusts, as to which beneficial
ownership  may  be  disclaimed, and options exercisable within sixty days. Based on currently available Schedules 13D and 13G
filed with the SEC, we do not know of any person who is the beneficial owner of more than 5% of our common stock.

NOTES:
(a)  The  information  under  this  caption regarding ownership of securities is
     based  upon  statements by the individual nominees, directors, and officers
     and  includes  shares  held  in the names of spouses, certain relatives and
     trusts  as  to  which  beneficial  ownership  may  be  disclaimed.  These
     indirectly  held  shares  total 61,863 for the spouses, minor children and
     trusts.
(b)  In the case of officers and officers who are directors, shares of our stock
     held  in  NBT  Bancorp  Inc. 401(k) and Employee Stock Ownership Plan as of
     December  31,  2003  totaling  40,321  are  included.
(c)  Preferred  Mutual  Insurance Company, of which Paul O. Stillman is Chairman
     and  Director, and John C. Mitchell is a Director, owns 164,041 shares; Mr.
     Mitchell  disclaims  any beneficial ownership of these shares. Mr. Stillman
     disclaims any beneficial ownership of these shares, except to the extent of
     his  pecuniary  interest  therein.
(d)  New  York  Central  Mutual  Fire  Insurance  Company,  of which Van Ness D.
     Robinson  serves  as  Chairman/Secretary, owns 888,471 shares. Mr. Robinson
     disclaims any beneficial ownership of these shares, except to the extent of
     his  pecuniary  interest  therein.
(e)  Martin  A.  Dietrich  has  power of attorney for his mother, who owns 7,000
     shares.  Mr.  Dietrich  disclaims any beneficial ownership of these shares.
(1)  Sole  voting  and  investment  authority.
(2)  Shared  voting  and  investment  authority.
(3)  Shares  under  option  from  the NBT 2001 Non-Employee Director, Divisional
     Director  and Subsidiary Director Stock Option Plan, which are exercisable
     within  sixty  days  of  December  31,  2003.
(4)  Shares  under  option  from  the  NBT  1993  Stock  Option  Plan, which are
     exercisable  within  sixty  days  of  December  31,  2003.
(*)  Less  than  1%


The  Board  of  Directors  unanimously recommends that stockholders vote FOR the
election  of  all  of  its  director  nominees.


7                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

DIRECTOR  INDEPENDENCE

Based  on  a  review  of  the  responses of the Directors to questions regarding
employment  and  compensation  history,  affiliations  and  family  and  other
relationships  and  on individual discussions with Directors, the full Board has
determined  that  all  Directors,  excluding Mr. Forsythe, meet the standards of
independence set forth by the Securities and Exchange Commission ("SEC") and the
Nasdaq Stock Market. Directors on our Risk Management (audit) Committee meet the
expanded independence requirements of audit committee members.

     The  independent  members  of  the  Board  meet  on a quarterly basis in an
executive  session  where  non-independent Directors and Management are excused.
John Mitchell, who serves as chairman of the Nominating and Corporate Governance
Committee, currently chairs these executive sessions.

CODE  OF  ETHICS

The  Company  has  adopted a Code of Business Conduct and Ethics that applies to
all  employees,  as well as each member of the Company's Board of Directors. The
Code  of  Business  Conduct  and Ethics is available at the Company's website at
www.nbtbancorp.com/corporategov.html.

BOARD POLICY REGARDING COMMUNICATIONS WITH THE BOARD

The  Board of Directors maintains a process for stockholders to communicate with
the  Board  of  Directors. Stockholders wishing to communicate with the Board of
Directors  should  send  any  communication  to Corporate Secretary, NBT Bancorp
Inc.,  52  South  Broad  Street, Norwich, New York 13815. Any such communication
must  state  the  name  of  and  the  number of shares beneficially owned by the
stockholder  making the communication. The Corporate Secretary will forward such
communication  to  the  full Board of Directors or to any individual director or
directors  to  whom  the  communication  is directed unless the communication is
unduly  hostile,  threatening, illegal or similarly inappropriate. At each board
meeting,  a  member  of  management  presents  a  summary  of all communications
received  since  the  last  meeting  that  were  not  forwarded  and makes those
communications  available  on  request.

DIRECTOR ATTENDANCE AT BOARD MEETINGS AND ANNUAL MEETINGS

During fiscal 2003, NBT held five meetings of its Board. Each incumbent Director
attended  at  least  75% of the aggregate of (i) the total number of meetings of
the  Board  held during the period that the individual served and (ii) the total
number  of  meetings  held  by all committees of the Board on which the director
served  during the period that the individual served. In addition, Directors are
expected  to  attend  our  Annual  Shareholder Meetings. All Directors, with the
exception  of Director Michael Hutcherson, were in attendance at the 2003 Annual
Meeting  and  we  expect  that  all directors will be present at the 2004 Annual
Meeting.

COMMITTEES OF THE BOARD

NBT  has  a  number of standing committees, including a Nominating and Corporate
Governance  Committee,  Risk  Management Committee and Compensation and Benefits
Committee. The Board has determined that all of the Directors who serve on these
Committees are independent for purposes of Nasdaq Rule 4200 and that the members
of  the  Risk  Management Committee are also independent for purposes of section
10A(m)(3) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934. A description of each of these
committees  follows:

NOMINATING AND CORPORATE GOVERNANCE COMMITTEE:

Chairman: John C. Mitchell

Members:  Richard Chojnowski
          Gene E. Goldenziel
          Dr. Peter B. Gregory
          Paul D. Horger
          Michael H. Hutcherson
          Janet H. Ingraham
          Van Ness D. Robinson

     The  Nominating  and  Corporate  Governance  Committee  is  responsible for
determining  the  qualification  of  and  nominating persons for election to the
Board  of  Directors,  including  (if  applicable)  shareholder nominations that
comply  with the notice procedures set forth by SEC Regulation and the Company's
Bylaws.  The  Committee  also formulates our corporate governance guidelines and
functions  to  insure  a successful evolution of management at the senior level.
The  Board  of  Directors  has  adopted a written charter for the Nominating and
Corporate  Governance Committee, a copy of which is available on the NBT Bancorp
website  at www.nbtbancorp.com/corporategov.html. This Committee met three times
in  2003.
     The  Board  of  Directors believes that it should be comprised of Directors
who possess the highest personal and professional ethics, integrity, and values,
and  who  shall have demonstrated exceptional ability and judgment and who shall
be  most  effective in representing the long-term interests of the shareholders.
     When  considering candidates for the Board of Directors, the Nominating and
Corporate  Governance  Committee  takes  into  account  the  candidate's
qualifications,  experience  and  independence  from management. In addition, in
accordance  with  the  Company's  Bylaws:


8                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

     -    Every director must be a citizen of the United States and have resided
          in the State of New York, or within two hundred miles of the principal
          office of the company, for at least one-year immediately preceding the
          election;
     -    Each  director  must  own $1,000 aggregate book value of the Company's
          common  stock;  and
     -    No  person shall be eligible for election or re-election as a director
          if  they  shall  have  attained  the  age  of  70  years.

     When  seeking  candidates  for  Director,  the  Nominating  and  Corporate
Governance  Committee  may  solicit  suggestions  from  incumbent  Directors,
Management  or others. The Committee also has the authority to retain any search
firm  to assist in the identification of Director candidates. The Committee will
review  the  qualifications  and  experience of each candidate. If the Committee
believes  a  candidate  would  be  a  valuable  addition  to  the Board, it will
recommend  to  the  full  Board  that  candidate's  election.
     The  Company's  Bylaws  also  permit  shareholders  eligible to vote at the
annual  meeting  to make nominations for directors, but only if such nominations
are  made  pursuant  to  timely notice in writing to the President of NBT. To be
timely, notice must be delivered to, or mailed to and received at, the principal
executive  offices  of  NBT  within  10  days  following the day on which public
disclosure  of  the  date  of  any  annual  meeting  called  for the election of
directors is first given. The Nominating and Corporate Governance Committee will
consider candidates for Director suggested by stockholders applying the criteria
for  candidates  described  above  and  considering  the  additional information
required  by  Article  III, Section 3 of the Company's Bylaws, which must be set
forth  in  a  shareholder's  notice of nomination. Article III, Section 3 of the
Company's  Bylaws  requires  that the notice include: (a) as to each person whom
the  shareholder proposes to nominate for election as a director (i) the name of
such  person and (ii) the principal occupation or employment of such person; and
(b)  as  to  the  shareholder  giving  notice  (i)  the name and address of such
shareholder  (ii) the number of shares of the Company that will be voted for the
proposed nominee by such shareholder (including shares to be voted by proxy) and
(iii)  the  number of shares of the Company which are beneficially owned by such
shareholder.

RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE:
Chairman:  Joseph G. Nasser

Members:   Richard Chojnowski
           Patricia T. Civil
           William C. Gumble
           Janet H. Ingraham
           John C. Mitchell
           Van Ness D. Robinson
           Joseph A. Santangelo
           Paul O. Stillman

     The Risk Management Committee, our audit committee, represents our Board in
fulfilling  its  statutory and fiduciary responsibilities for independent audits
of  NBT  including  monitoring  accounting and financial reporting practices and
financial  information  distributed to stockholders and the general public. This
Committee  met four times in 2003. Responsibilities and duties of this Committee
are  discussed more fully in the section titled Risk Management Committee Report
and  in  the  Committee's  charter,  which  is  included  as  Appendix  A.

COMPENSATION AND BENEFITS COMMITTEE:
Chairman:  Andrew S. Kowalczyk, Jr.

Members:   Patricia T. Civil
           William C. Gumble
           Michael M. Murphy
           Joseph G. Nasser
           William L. Owens
           Joseph A. Santangelo
           Paul O. Stillman

     This  Committee  has the responsibility of reviewing the salaries and other
forms  of  compensation  of  the  key  executive  personnel  of  NBT  and  our
subsidiaries.  The  Committee  administers our pension plan, 401(k) and employee
stock  ownership  plan, the directors' and officers' stock option plans, as well
as  the  restricted,  deferred and performance share stock plans. This Committee
met  two  times  in  2003.

SECTION 16(a) BENECIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

Our Directors and Executive Officers must, under Section 16(a) of the Securities
Exchange  Act  of  1934,  file certain reports of their initial ownership of our
common  stock and of changes in beneficial ownership of our securities. Based on
a  review  of  reports  submitted  to  NBT, the Company believes that during the
fiscal  year  ended  December  31,  2003  all  Section  16(a)  ling requirements
applicable  to  NBT's  Directors  and Executive Officers were complied with on a
timely  basis,  except for two Form 4's for Mr. Gumble, covering one transaction
each,  and  one  Form  4  for  Mr.  Mitchell,  covering  one  transaction.

COMPENSATION OF DIRECTORS AND OFFICERS

BOARD OF DIRECTORS' FEES. Members of our Board receive an annual retainer in the
amount  of  $9,000,  which  shall  be  payable  in the form of restricted stock,
pursuant  to the Non-Employee Directors' Restricted and Deferred Stock Plan (the
"Directors'  Plan" ). Under the Directors' Plan, restricted stock will vest over
a  three-year  period.  In 2004 members of our Board also received an annualized
grant of 400 shares of deferred stock, pursuant to the Directors' Plan. Deferred
stock  vests  when  an  individual ceases to be a member of the Board. Directors


9                                              PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

receive  $900  in  cash  for each Board meeting attended. Our Board members also
receive  $600  in  cash  for  each  committee  meeting attended ($900 additional
compensation  for  special  meetings  held  or  meetings  held at the request of
Management).  Chairmen of the committees receive $900 in cash for each committee
meeting  attended.  Our officers who are also directors do not receive any Board
fees.  Under  the  NBT Non-Employee Director, Divisional Director and Subsidiary
Director Stock Option Plan, we annually grant each of our non-employee directors
an  option  to  purchase shares of our common stock at the fair market value per
share  on  the  date  of  the  grant.  The number of shares granted equals 1,000
multiplied  by  the  number  of NBT Bancorp Board meetings attended in the prior
year  and  divided by the number of NBT Bancorp Board meetings held in the prior
year.  We  also  provided  health  insurance  for  one  director of NBT under an
agreement  honored  from  the  Pioneer  American Holding Company acquisition. In
2003,  the  premium  for  Mr.  Gene  E.  Goldenziel's insurance coverage totaled
$5,209.  This  agreement  ended  July  31,  2003. We also provide an annual cash
payment of $207 to Dr. Peter B. Gregory in lieu of a life insurance premium that
was  paid  from  an  acquired  financial  institution.




SUMMARY COMPENSATION
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                                                                            LONG TERM COMPENSATION
                                               ANNUAL  COMPENSATION         ----------------------
                                         -----------------------------------      AWARDS
                                                                              SECURITIES
                                                                 OTHER ANNUAL UNDERLYING      LTIP          ALL OTHER
NAME AND PRINCIPAL POSITION       YEAR   SALARY   BONUS (1)   COMPENSATION (2)   OPTIONS   PAYOUTS   COMPENSATION (3)
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Daryl R. Forsythe,                2003  $425,000  $  255,000                       36,375  $      0  $         130,788
Chairman and Chief                2002   375,000     225,000                       52,300         0            113,990
Executive Officer of NBT          2001   350,000     140,625                       54,500         0             87,810

Michael J. Chewens,               2003  $232,000  $  129,920                       19,875  $      0  $          54,460
Senior Executive Vice President,  2002   214,500     120,120                       29,900         0             52,705
Chief Financial Officer           2001   206,000      49,871                       25,600         0             40,870
and Secretary of NBT and
NBT Bank

Martin A. Dietrich,               2003  $281,000  $  157,360                       24,000  $      0  $          58,532
President of NBT, President       2002   260,000     145,600                       36,200         0             57,033
and Chief Executive Officer       2001   253,365      91,650                       43,246         0             42,500
of NBT Bank

David E. Raven,                   2003  $216,000  $  120,960                       18,450  $      0  $          22,560
President and Chief               2002   200,000     112,000                       27,900         0             20,930
Operating Officer of              2001   189,154      46,500  $          54,586    22,400         0             13,600
Pennstar Bank Division
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NOTES:

(1)  Represents  bonuses  under our Executive Incentive Compensation Plan earned
     in  the  specified  year and paid in January of the following year for 2002
     and  2003.  In  2001  a  discretionary  amount was paid in lieu of a bonus.

(2)  Moving  costs  for  Mr.  Raven  in  2001  totaling  $54,586.

(3)  NBT  contributions to its defined benefit pension plan were $87,000 in 2003
     and  in  2002, and $73,950 in 2001 for Mr. Forsythe; $38,000 in 2003 and in
     2002, and $32,300 in 2001 for Mr. Chewens; $44,000 in 2003 and in 2002, and
     $37,400  in  2001  for  Mr.  Dietrich; and $10,000 in 2003 and in 2002, and
     $8,500  in  2001  for  Mr.  Raven.

     This  column also reflects NBT contributions to NBT Bancorp Inc. 401(k) and
     Employee  Stock  Ownership  Plan  ("401(k)/ESOP"),  employer  matching
     contributions for Messrs. Forsythe, Chewens, Dietrich and Raven were $6,000
     in  2003  and  2002, and $5,100 in 2001. Discretionary contributions to the
     401(k)/ESOP were made in the amounts of $13,000 in 2003 and $10,312 in 2002
     for Mr. Forsythe; $7,042 in 2003 and $5,287 in 2002 for Mr. Chewens; $8,532
     in  2003 and $7,033 in 2002 for Mr. Dietrich; and $6,560 in 2003 and $4,930
     in  2002  for Mr. Raven. A discretionary contribution was not made in 2001.

     Also  included  in  this column are costs to the Corporation for disability
     plan  agreements  and  split-dollar life insurance plans. For Mr. Forsythe,
     these  costs were $11,702 in 2003, $10,678 in 2002, and $8,760 in 2001. For
     Mr.  Chewens  these  costs  were  $3,418 in 2003 and in 2002, and $3,470 in
     2001.

     In  addition,  included  in  this  column  are  the annual premiums paid to
     provide  Long  Term  Care Insurance for the benefit of Mr. Forsythe and his
     spouse,  which  were  $6,433  and  $6,653  respectively  in  2003.



10                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

OPTION  GRANTS  INFORMATION

The following table presents information concerning grants of stock options made
during  2003 to each of the named Executive Officers. The potentially realizable
values are based solely on arbitrarily assumed rates of appreciation required by
applicable SEC regulations. Actual gains, if any, on option exercises and common
stockholdings are dependent on the future performance of our common stock. There
can  be  no  assurance  that the potential realizable values shown in this table
will be achieved. SEC regulations. Actual gains, if any, on option exercises and
common  stockholdings  are  dependent  on  the  future performance of our common
stock.  There  can be no assurance that the potential realizable values shown in
this  table  will  be  achieved.



Option Grants in Last Fiscal Year

                                                     INDIVIDUAL GRANTS                     POTENTIAL REALIZABLE VALUE AT ASSUMED
                                         -------------------------------------                       ANNUAL RATES OF STOCK PRICE
                       # OF SECURITIES     % OF TOTAL OPTIONS                                     APPRECIATION FOR OPTION TERM(2)
                            UNDERLYING    GRANTED TO EMPLOYEES       EXERCISE                     -------------------------------
NAME                 OPTIONS GRANTED(1)         IN FISCAL YEAR    PRICE ($/SH)     EXPIRATION DATE         5%               10%
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Daryl R. Forsythe             36,375(a)                   9.8%  $     17.5380  January 2013     $        401,200   $   1,016,720
Daryl R. Forsythe              4,000(b)                   1.1%        20.0558  August 2013                50,452         127,855
Daryl R. Forsythe              5,200(b)                   1.4%        19.7917  August 2013                64,724         164,023
Daryl R. Forsythe             11,700(b)                   3.2%        19.8125  August 2013               145,782         369,439
Daryl R. Forsythe              6,050(b)                   1.6%        19.7925  August 2013                75,307         190,842
                              ---------                 -----                                   ----------------   --------------
  Total                       63,325                     17.1%                                  $        737,464   $   1,868,879
Michael J. Chewens            19,875(a)                   5.4%  $     17.5380  January 2013     $        219,212   $     555,527
Martin A. Dietrich            24,000(a)                   6.5%        17.5380  January 2013              264,709         670,825
David E. Raven                18,450(a)                   5.0%        17.5380  January 2013              203,495         515,697
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NOTES:
(1)  Nonqualified  options have been granted at fair market value at the date of
     grant.

(2)  The potential realizable  value of each grant of options, assuming that the
     market  price of the underlying security appreciates in value from the date
     of  grant to the end of the option term, at the specified annualized rates.
     The  assumed  growth  rates  in  price  in  our  stock  are not necessarily
     indicative  of actual performance that may be expected. The amounts exclude
     any  execution  costs  by  the  executive  to  exercise  such  options.

(a)  Options  vest  40%  after  one year from grant date; an additional 20% vest
     each  following  year.

(b)  "Reload"  options  (defined in the NBT 1993 Stock Option Plan) vest in full
     two  years  after  the  date  of  grant.



AGGREGATE OPTION EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR AND
FISCAL YEAR-END OPTION VALUES

The  following  table  presents  information  concerning  the  exercise of stock
options  during  2003  by  each of the named Executive Officers and the value at
December 31, 2003, of unexercised options that are exercisable within sixty days
of  December  31,  2003.  Unexercised  In  the  Money Options values, unlike the
amounts  set forth in the column headed "Value Realized," have not been, and may
never  be,  realized. All in formation has been adjusted for stock dividends and
splits.  The  underlying options have not been, and may never be, exercised; and
actual  gains,  if any, on exercise will depend on the value of our common stock
on  the  date  of  exercise. There can be no assurance that these values will be
realized.



AGGREGATE OPTION EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR AND FISCAL YEAR-END OPTION VALUES

                                                          NUMBER OF SECURITIES    VALUE OF UNEXERCISED
                                                         UNDERLYING UNEXERCISED   IN THE MONEY OPTIONS
                                                           OPTIONS AT FY END          AT FY END(2)
                    SHARES ACQUIRED                           EXERCISABLE/            EXERCISABLE/
NAME                  ON EXERCISE    VALUE REALIZED(1)       UNEXERCISABLE           UNEXERCISABLE
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Daryl R. Forsythe           119,090  $        1,095,214          228,171/80,596  $    1,020,988/335,236
Michael J. Chewens           16,731             131,064           84,091/29,005         430,196/158,870
Martin A. Dietrich                -                   -          145,451/36,662         805,676/200,713
David E. Raven                    -                   -           63,412/26,711         335,953/146,425
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NOTES:

(1)  Represents difference between the fair market value on the date of exercise
     of  the  securities  underlying  the  options and the exercise price of the
     options.

(2)  Represents  difference  between  the  fair  market  value of the securities
     underlying  the  options  and the exercise price of the options at December
     31,  2003.



11                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

PENSION  PLAN

Our executives participate in the NBT Bancorp Inc. Defined Benefit Pension Plan.
This  plan  is  a  noncontributory,  tax-qualified defined benefit pension plan.
Eligible  employees  are  those  who have attained age 21 and have completed one
year  of  service  in  which  the employee worked at least 1,000 hours. The plan
provides  for  100%  vesting after five years of qualified service. Prior to the
amendment  and  restatement  of the plan effective January 1, 2000, the plan had
received  a  determination  from  the Internal Revenue Service that the plan was
qualified  under  Section  401(a)  of  the  Internal  Revenue Code. The plan, as
amended  and  restated  effective  January 1, 2000, was submitted in 2001 to the
Internal  Revenue Service for determination. The plan was converted to a defined
benefit  plan  with  a cash balance feature, effective January 1, 2000. Prior to
that date, the plan was a traditional defined benefit pension plan.

     Under  a  cash balance plan such as our plan, hypothetical account balances
are  established  for each participant and pension benefits are generally stated
as  the  lump  sum  amount  in  that  hypothetical  account. Notwithstanding the
preceding  sentence,  since  a  cash balance plan is a defined benefit plan, the
annual  retirement  benefit payable at normal retirement (age 65) is an annuity,
which is the actuarial equivalent of the participant's account balance under the
cash  balance  plan.  However, participants may elect, with the consent of their
spouses  if  they  are  married,  to have the benefits distributed as a lump sum
rather  than  an  annuity. Benefits under the plan for 2003 are computed using a
cash  balance methodology for people who converted (as described hereafter) that
provides  for pay-based credits to the participants' hypothetical accounts equal
to  5 to 43.5 percent (depending on age and other factors) on the first $200,000
of annual eligible compensation. Eligible compensation under the plan is defined
as  fixed basic annual salary or wages, commissions, overtime, cash bonuses, and
any  amount  contributed by us at the direction of the participant pursuant to a
salary  reduction  agreement  and excludible from the participant's gross income
under  the  Internal Revenue Code, but excluding any other form of remuneration,
regardless  of  the manner calculated or paid, such as amounts realized from the
exercise  of  stock options, severance pay or our cost for any public or private
benefit  plan, including this pension plan. In addition to the pay-based service
credits,  monthly interest credits are made to the participant's account balance
based  on  the  average annual yield on 30-year U.S. Treasury securities for the
November  of  the  prior year. Each active participant in the pension plan as of
January  1,  2000  was  given  a  one-time  irrevocable  election  to  continue
participating  in  the  traditional  defined  benefit  plan  design  or to begin
participating  in  the  new  cash  balance plan design. All employees who became
participants  after  January  1,  2000  automatically  participated  in the cash
balance  plan  design.  Each  of our executives chose to participate in the cash
balance  plan  design.

     The following table shows the estimated annual accrued benefits at December
31,  2003  payable  as Life annuities with Five Years Certain upon retirement at
normal retirement age ("NRA") for each of the named executives.

EXECUTIVE                                                 ANNUITY BENEFIT AT NRA
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Mr. Forsythe                                                            $ 45,403
Mr. Chewens                                                             $ 48,631
Mr. Dietrich                                                            $ 59,673
Mr. Raven                                                               $ 15,567
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     Pension  benefits  under  the  plan are not subject to reduction for social
security  benefits  or other offset amounts. Section 415 of the Internal Revenue
Code  places  certain  limitations on pension benefits that may be paid from the
trusts  of  tax-qualified  plans, such as the plan. Because of these limitations
and  in  order to provide certain executives with adequate retirement income, we
have  entered  into  supplemental retirement agreements which provide retirement
benefits  to  the  named  executives in the manner discussed below. It should be
noted  that  where  applicable  the  amounts  payable  under  the  supplemental
retirement  agreements,  as  discussed  in  the following section, are offset by
payments  made  under  our  pension plan, the annuitized employer portion of our
401(k)/ESOP  and  social  security.

SUPPLEMENTAL RETIREMENT AGREEMENTS AND PLAN

We  have  entered  into  an  agreement  with  Mr.  Forsythe  to provide him with
supplemental retirement benefits, revised most recently on January 28, 2002 (the
"SERP").  The  SERP  provides  that  Mr.  Forsythe's  annual  benefit  at normal
retirement,  including  (a) the annual benefit payable to Mr. Forsythe under our
pension  plan, (b) the annual benefit that could be provided by contributions by
us  and  NBT  Bank  (other  than  Mr.  Forsythe's  elective  deferrals)  to  our
401(k)/ESOP  and  the  earnings  on  those  amounts  if  these contributions and
earnings  were  converted  to  a  benefit  payable under the agreement using the
actuarial  assumptions  provided  under  the  agreement, (c) his social security
benefit,  and (d) the SERP, will be equal to 75% of Mr. Forsythe's final average
compensation  (i.e.,  average  annual  base  salary,  commissions,  bonuses  and
elective  deferrals  without  regard to any Internal Revenue Code limitations on
compensation  applicable to tax-qualified plans). Additionally, Mr. Forsythe and
his  spouse will continue to receive medical benefits (including medical, dental
and vision care) until his death. Reduced amounts will be payable under the SERP
in  the  event  Mr.  Forsythe  takes  early  retirement. If Mr. Forsythe becomes
disabled  before  he attains age 62, he will be treated for purposes of the SERP
as  if  he had continued to be employed by NBT Bank until he reached age 62, and
then  retired.  If  Mr.  Forsythe dies, his spouse will be entitled to an annual
benefit  for  life  equal  to 50% of the benefit payable to Mr. Forsythe and, if
such  death  occurs  before he retires, as if he had retired and begun receiving


12                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

his  benefit  before he died. Except in the case of early retirement, disability
or  death,  payment  of  benefits  will commence upon the first day of the month
after Mr. Forsythe attains age 65. Assuming a retirement age of 65, satisfaction
of  applicable  SERP  conditions,  that  he  is  currently 65, and that his 2003
compensation  were  his  final  average compensation as defined by the SERP, the
estimated  aggregate  annual retirement benefit under the SERP, our cash balance
pension  plan,  the  annuitized  employer  portion of our 401(k)/ESOP and social
security  to  be  paid  to  Mr. Forsythe would be $487,500. The SERP will at all
times  be unfunded except that, in the event of a change in control, NBT will be
required  to  transfer  to  a  grantor  trust  an amount sufficient to cover all
potential  liabilities  under  the  SERP.

     We  have  also  adopted  a  Supplemental Executive Retirement Plan in which
Messrs.  Chewens  and  Dietrich  participate.  Messrs.  Chewens  and  Dietrich's
agreements  pursuant  to  the  SERP  provide  each  executive  with  an  annual
supplemental  benefit  at  normal  retirement,  including (a) the annual benefit
payable  to  the  executive  under  our pension plan (b) the annual benefit that
could  be  provided  by  contributions  by  us  and  NBT  Bank  (other  than the
executive's  elective  deferrals)  to  our 401(k)/ESOP and the earnings on those
amounts  if these contributions and earnings were converted to a benefit payable
under the agreement using the actuarial assumptions provided under the agreement
(c)  his  social security benefit and (d) the SERP, will be equal to the greater
of  (1)  50% of the executive's final average compensation (i.e., average annual
base  salary,  commissions, bonuses and elective deferrals without regard to any
Internal  Revenue  Code  limitations on compensation applicable to tax qualified
plans)  or (2) the sum of the annual amount of the executive's benefit under our
pension  plan,  calculated without giving effect to limitations and restrictions
imposed  by  the  Internal  Revenue  Code  plus the annual benefit that could be
provided  by  contributions  by  us  and  NBT  Bank  (other than the executive's
elective  deferrals)  to  our  401(k)/ESOP  and  the  earnings on those amounts,
calculated  by  disregarding  the  limitations  and  restrictions imposed by the
Internal Revenue Code and using the actuarial assumptions set out in our pension
plan. Reduced amounts will be payable under the SERP in the event Mr. Chewens or
Mr. Dietrich takes early retirement. If Mr. Chewens or Mr. Dietrich dies leaving
a  surviving  spouse,  his spouse will be entitled to an annual benefit for life
equal  to the annual survivor annuity benefit under our pension plan, calculated
without  giving  effect  to limitations and restrictions imposed by the Internal
Revenue  Code,  reduced  by  the surviving spouse benefit actually payable under
such  plan,  plus  a  lump  sum amount equal to contributions by us and NBT Bank
(other  than  the executive's elective deferrals) to our 401(k)/ESOP, calculated
by disregarding the limitations and restrictions imposed by the Internal Revenue
Code,  reduced  by the amounts actually contributed to our 401(k)/ESOP, plus the
earnings  on  such  net amount. If the executive dies after attaining age 60 and
after  he  has  retired,  but  before  payment  of  benefits  has commenced, the
surviving  spouse will receive an annual benefit equal to the excess, if any, of
(1)  the  monthly  amount  the surviving spouse is entitled to under our pension
plan,  calculated  without giving effect to limitations and restrictions imposed
by  the  Internal  Revenue Code, over (2) the monthly amount actually payable to
the  surviving spouse under our pension plan plus the monthly amount that is the
actuarial  equivalent  of  any  supplemental  retirement  benefit payable to the
surviving  spouse.  Except  in the case of early retirement or death, payment of
benefits  will commence upon the first day of the month after Mr. Chewens or Mr.
Dietrich  attains  age  62.  Assuming  a  retirement  age of 62, satisfaction of
applicable  SERP  conditions,  that  he  is  currently  62,  and  that  his 2003
compensation  were  his  final  average compensation as defined by the SERP, the
estimated  aggregate  annual retirement benefit under the SERP, our cash balance
pension  plan,  the  annuitized  employer  portion of our 401(k)/ESOP and social
security  to  be  paid  to  Messrs.  Chewens  and Dietrich would be $176,060 and
$213,300,  respectively. The SERPs for both Mr. Chewens and Mr. Dietrich will at
all times be unfunded except that, in the event of a change in control, NBT will
be  required  to  transfer  to a grantor trust an amount sufficient to cover all
potential  liabilities  under  the  SERP.

EMPLOYMENT  AGREEMENTS

We  have  entered  into  employment  agreements with Messrs. Forsythe, Dietrich,
Chewens  and  Raven.  Under Mr. Forsythe's agreement, he will serve as Chairman,
President  and  Chief  Executive  Officer  of NBT until December 31, 2003 and as
Chairman  and  CEO  until  December 31, 2005, at which time he will retire as an
active  employee.  Commencing  January 1, 2006 and continuing for as long as Mr.
Forsythe  is  a member of the Board of Directors, he agrees to serve as Chairman
of NBT. Under Mr. Dietrich's agreement, he will serve as the President and Chief
Operating  Officer  of  NBT Bank until December 31, 2003, as President and Chief
Executive  Officer  of  NBT Bank and as President of NBT from January 1, 2004 to
December  31, 2005, and then as President and Chief Executive Officer of NBT and
NBT  Bank as of January 1, 2006. Further, Mr. Dietrich will continue to serve as
a  director of NBT Bank and, as of January 1, 2005, will be appointed a director
of NBT. Mr. Chewens' agreement provides that he will serve as a Senior Executive
Vice  President  and  Chief  Financial  Officer of our Company and NBT Bank. Mr.
Raven's  agreement  provides  that  he  will  serve  as  the President and Chief
Operating  Officer  of  our  Pennstar  Bank  division.  The termination of these
agreements  will  occur  upon  the earlier of the executive's death, disability,
discharge,  resignation,  or  a given date. For Mr. Dietrich, the agreement will
terminate  no  later  than  August  2, 2008. For Messrs. Chewens and Raven, this
termination date is January 1, 2007, with each agreement providing for automatic


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one-year  extensions occurring annually each January 1. Mr. Forsythe's agreement
does  not  have  a set termination date, but will terminate if he is no longer a
director  of  NBT. Mr. Forsythe's annual salary under his agreement was $425,000
in 2003 and will be $450,000 in 2004. Mr. Dietrich's salary was $281,000 in 2003
and  may  not  be less than $310,000 during 2004. Mr. Chewens' salary in 2004 is
$251,500,  and  his  agreement  provides  for minimum increases of 8 percent per
annum.  Mr.  Raven's  annual  salary  in 2004 is $234,000 and his agreement also
provides for minimum increases of 8 percent per annum.

     In  addition  to  base  salary,  all  four  executives  are  eligible to be
considered  for performance bonuses commensurate with his title and salary grade
in  accordance  with  the  compensation policies. The agreements also grant each
executive  a  right  to stock options to be granted to him annually, pursuant to
the  1993  Stock  Option  Plan,  as  amended, or any appropriate successor plan,
computed using a formula approved by NBT that is commensurate with his title and
salary  grade.  Mr.  Forsythe  only has the right to receive stock options under
this  plan  until  December 31, 2005. In addition, each executive is entitled to
participate in the Performance Share Plan commensurate with his title and salary
grade.  Mr.  Forsythe  will be eligible to receive a payout from any Performance
Share  Plan  in  effect  as  of December 31, 2005 as if he were employed for the
duration  of  any  current  plans.  Under  each agreement, the executive is also
entitled  to  paid  vacation time and sick leave commensurate with his title and
salary  grade, in accordance with the Company's policy. Mr. Forsythe is entitled
to  no  less  than five weeks of paid vacation and Messrs. Dietrich, Chewens and
Raven are each entitled to four weeks of paid vacation. Each executive will also
receive  other benefits including use of an automobile, country club privileges,
and  participation  in  our  various employee benefits plans such as the pension
plan, the 401(k)/ESOP, and various health, disability, and life insurance plans.

     Upon  termination  of his respective agreement, Messrs. Forsythe, Dietrich,
Chewens  and  Raven  are each entitled to receive his accrued and unpaid salary,
his  accrued  rights  under  our employee plans and arrangements, unpaid expense
reimbursements,  and the cash equivalent of his accrued annual vacation and sick
leave.  If the executive's employment is terminated by us other than for "cause"
(as  defined  in  the  agreements),  or  by  the executive for "good reason" (as
defined  in the agreements) or, in the case of Mr. Forsythe only, as a result of
the  executive's  inability  to  perform his duties as a result of a physical or
mental disability for a period of at least 180 days, the executive will continue
to  receive  their  base  salary  in a manner consistent with our normal payroll
practices  for  a  certain  period.  Mr. Forsythe would continue to receive such
payments  until  the  later  of  August 2, 2006 or one year after termination of
employment. For Mr. Dietrich, these payments would be made until August 2, 2006.
For  Messrs.  Chewens  and Raven, the payments would continue until the later of
January  1,  2007,  the date to which the term of employment under the agreement
was  automatically  extended  (see  above),  or  two  years after termination of
employment.  Messrs.  Dietrich, Chewens and Raven will also receive a relocation
payment  if  the  executive  relocates  within  18  months  after termination of
employment  from  the  Norwich,  Binghamton or Scranton area, respectively. Each
executive  has  also  agreed  that  for  one  year  after the termination of his
agreement,  he  will  not directly or indirectly compete with the Company or NBT
Bank. If any of the executives are terminated due to a change of control covered
by  his  change  in  control agreement (discussed later), his severance payments
will be determined under that agreement.

CHANGE  IN  CONTROL  AGREEMENTS

We  have  entered  into  a  change  in  control  agreement  with each of Messrs.
Forsythe,  Chewens,  Dietrich  and  Raven  most  recently  on July 23, 2001. The
agreements  for Messrs. Forsythe, Chewens, Dietrich and Raven provide in general
that,  in  the event there is a change in control of us or NBT Bank and further,
if  within  24  months  from the date of such change in control, Mr. Forsythe's,
Chewens',  Dietrich's  or  Raven's  respective employment with us or NBT Bank is
terminated  without cause (as defined in the agreement) or by the executive with
good reason (as defined in the agreement), or if within 12 months of such change
in control, the executive resigns, irrespective of the existence of good reason,
Messrs.  Forsythe,  Chewens,  Dietrich or Raven will be entitled to receive 2.99
times  the greater of (1) the sum of his annualized salary for the calendar year
in  which the change in control occurs, the maximum target bonus that could have
been paid to him for such year if all applicable targets and objectives had been
achieved,  or  if no formal bonus program is in effect, the largest bonus amount
paid  to  him  during any of the three preceding calendar years, his income from
the exercise of nonqualified stock options during such year and other annualized
amounts  that constitute taxable income for such year, without consideration for
salary  reduction  amounts  that  are  excludible from taxable income or (2) his
average  annual  compensation  includible in his gross income for federal income
tax  purposes  for  the  three years immediately preceding the year in which the
change  in  control  occurs,  including  base  salary, bonus and ordinary income
recognized  with  respect  to  stock  options  and other annualized amounts that
constitute  taxable income for such year, without reduction for salary reduction
amounts that are excludible from taxable income. The executive will also receive
a  gross-up  payment  to compensate for the imposition of any excise taxes under
section  4999  of  the  Internal  Revenue  Code.  Moreover,  if  the executive's
employment  with  us or NBT Bank is terminated without cause or by the executive
with good reason within 24 months of such change in control, or if the executive
resigns within 12 months of such change in control irrespective of the existence
of  good  reason,  the  executive and his spouse and family, if applicable, will


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continue  to receive the continued benefit for three years after the executive's
date  of  termination,  or  such longer period as is provided in the appropriate
plan,  of  all  non-cash  employee  benefit  plans,  programs,  or  arrangements
(including  pension  and  retirement plans and arrangements, stock option plans,
life insurance and health and accident plans and arrangements, medical insurance
plans, disability plans, and vacation plans) in which the executive was entitled
to  participate  immediately prior to the executive's date of termination, as in
effect  at  the  date of termination, so long as such continued participation is
allowed  under the applicable plans, programs, and arrangements. However, if the
executive  becomes  eligible  to  participate  in  a  benefit  plan, program, or
arrangement  of  another  employer  which confers substantially similar benefits
upon  the executive, the executive will cease to receive the benefits in respect
to  our  plan,  program,  or  arrangement.  In  the  event  that the executive's
participation  in  any  such  plan, program, or arrangement is barred, we or NBT
Bank  will  arrange to provide the executive with benefits substantially similar
to  those  which the executive is entitled to receive under such plans, programs
and  arrangements  or alternatively, pay an amount equal to the reasonable value
of  substantially  similar benefits. In addition, each executive's benefit under
any  SERP shall be fully vested and his benefit thereunder will be determined as
if  his  employment  had  continued  for  three additional years (or such lesser
period  after  which the maximum benefit is attained), at an annual compensation
equal to the amount determined for purposes of calculating his severance amount.
Moreover,  under  certain  circumstances  we or NBT Bank or the acquiring entity
will  provide  the  executive  with health coverage for the maximum period after
termination  of  employment  for which COBRA continuation coverage is available.
The  agreements  are  effective  until December 31, 2004, and will automatically
renew  for  one  additional year each December 31 unless notice is given 90 days
prior  to  the  expiration  of the current term. However, if a change in control
occurs  during  the term of the agreement, it will be automatically extended for
24  months  from  the  date  of  such  a  change  in  control.

OTHER  EMPLOYMENT  BENEFITS

The  Corporation  and  Mr.  Forsythe  have entered into a wage continuation plan
effective  August  1,  1995,  which  provides  that in the event Mr. Forsythe is
disabled  as a result of sickness or injury, he will receive 100% of his regular
wages  for  the  first  three months of disability, subject to any deduction for
social  security or other offset amounts. If the disability extends beyond three
months,  Mr.  Forsythe will receive payments of $10,000 per month, until age 65,
under an individual supplemental insurance policy. The annual cost of the policy
for  Mr.  Forsythe  is  reflected  in  the Summary Compensation Table above. Mr.
Chewens will receive 100% of his regular wages for the first nine weeks, and NYS
Statutory  Disability  benefits  for  the  maximum  combined  period of 26 weeks
subject  to  deductions, if any, for social security or other offset amounts. In
addition, if the disability extends beyond three months Mr. Chewens will receive
payments  of  $3,750  per  month, until age 65, under an individual supplemental
disability  policy.  Beginning  after six months of disability, Mr. Chewens will
receive  additional payments of $10,000 per month, until age 65, under the group
term  disability  program.  The  annual  cost  of  the individual policy for Mr.
Chewens is re-elected in the Summary Compensation Table above.

     We  have  entered into an agreement to provide Long Term Care Insurance for
the  benefit  of  Mr. Forsythe and his spouse, effective February 1, 2003. These
policies  provide  a  daily  benefit for nursing home care, home health care and
other benefits as stipulated in the contracts. The premiums for this program are
structured  to  be  no  longer  due  after 10 years. The annual premiums for Mr.
Forsythe  and  his  spouse  are  $6,433  and  $6,653  respectively.

     Mr.  Forsythe and NBT Bank have entered into a death benefits agreement and
a  split-dollar agreement, which were amended most recently on January 28, 2002.
Under  the  death  benefits  agreement, a split-dollar life insurance policy has
been  taken  out  by  NBT  Bank  on  Mr.  Forsythe's  life in the face amount of
$800,000. Upon Mr. Forsythe's death, his named beneficiary will receive $600,000
from  the  policy's  proceeds,  while NBT Bank will receive the remainder of the
policy's  proceeds.  Under  the split-dollar agreement, NBT Bank has taken out a
life  insurance  policy on Mr. Forsythe's life in the amount of $1,500,000. Upon
Mr.  Forsythe's  death,  his  named beneficiary will receive $1,000,000 from the
policy's  proceeds,  while  NBT  Bank will receive the remainder of the policy's
proceeds.  Upon  termination  of  either  the  death  benefits  agreement or the
split-dollar  agreement,  which  occurs  after  Mr.  Forsythe  has  terminated
employment  and ceased to be Chairman of the NBT Board, Mr. Forsythe is required
to  transfer all of his right, title, and interest in the policy to us. As owner
of  the  policies,  NBT  Bank  retains  discretion  as to the disposition of the
policy.  NBT  Bank  pays  the  premium  on  the  policy, of which an actuarially
determined  amount  is  attributable  to  Mr.  Forsythe  and is reflected in the
Summary Compensation Table above.

COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION

In  fiscal  2003,  the following directors served as members of our Compensation
and  Benefits Committee: Andrew S. Kowalczyk, Jr., Patricia T. Civil, William C.
Gumble,  Michael  M.  Murphy,  Joseph  G.  Nasser,  William  L. Owens, Joseph A.
Santangelo,  and  Paul  O.  Stillman. The law firm of Kowalczyk, Tolles & Deery,
LLP,  of  which  Director Andrew S. Kowalczyk, Jr., is a partner, provided legal
services  to  us  and  NBT  Bank  in 2003. We paid $109,427 in fees for services
received  from  this  firm.  The law firm of Harris Beach LLP, of which Director
William  L.  Owens is a partner, also provided legal services to us in 2003. The


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amounts  paid  to this entity was less than the established reporting threshold.
From  time to time, NBT Bank makes loans to its Directors and Executive Officers
and related persons or entities. It is the belief of Management that these loans
are  made in the ordinary course of business, are made on substantially the same
terms,  including interest rates and collateral, as those prevailing at the time
for  comparable  transactions  with other persons, and neither involve more than
normal risk of collectability nor present other unfavorable features.

COMPENSATION COMMITTEE REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

The  Compensation  and Benefits Committee of the Board of Directors is comprised
of non-employee directors meeting the applicable standards for independence. The
primary  responsibility of the Compensation and Benefits Committee is to design,
implement,  and  administer all facets of our compensation and benefits programs
for  all  employees  (including  Executive Officer salaries, bonuses and certain
other  forms  of compensation). The Committee also administers our pension plan,
401(k)  and employee stock ownership plan ("ESOP"), the directors' and Officers'
stock  option  plans,  as well as the restricted, deferred and performance share
stock plans. The Committee presents its actions to our Board for approval.

     The  Committee  annually retains an independent compensation consultant, to
help ensure that the total compensation is reasonable in comparison to the total
compensation  provided  by  similarly  situated  publicly  traded  financial
institutions.  The  Compensation  Committee  has  also sought the advice of that
consultant  in  connection with the grant of stock options. Set forth below is a
report  addressing  NBT's  compensation policies for 2003 as they affected NBT's
Executive Officers.

COMPENSATION  POLICIES  FOR  EXECUTIVE  OFFICERS

NBT's Executive Compensation Policies are designed to provide competitive levels
of  compensation, to assist NBT in attracting and retaining qualified executives
and  to  encourage  superior  performance.  In  determining  levels of Executive
Officers'  overall  compensation,  the  Compensation  Committee  considers  the
qualifications and experience of the executives, the size of the Company and the
complexity  of  its  operations,  the  financial  condition, including recurring
income,  of  the Company, the compensation paid to other persons employed by the
Company  and  the  compensation  paid  to  persons  having  similar  duties  and
responsibilities  in  comparable  financial  institutions.  Compensation paid or
awarded  to  NBT's  Executive  Officers  in  2003  consisted  of  the  following
components:  base  salary,  variable  compensation  and  other.

BASE  SALARY.  The  Compensation  Committee  reviews  executive  base  salaries
annually.  Base  salary is intended to signal the internal value of the position
and  to  track  with  the  external  marketplace. All current Executive Officers
presently  serve  pursuant  to  employment agreements that provide for a minimum
base  salary  that  may  not  be  reduced  without  the consent of the Executive
Officer.  In establishing the fiscal 2003 salary for each Executive Officer, the
Compensation Committee considered the Officer's responsibilities, qualifications
and  experience,  the  size of the Company and the complexity of its operations,
the  financial  condition  of  the Company (based on levels of recurring income,
asset  quality  and  capital),  and  compensation paid to persons having similar
duties  and  responsibilities  in  comparable  financial  institutions.

VARIABLE  COMPENSATION. Variable compensation consists of annual cash incentives
in  the  form  of  our  Executive Incentive Compensation Plan ("EICP") and stock
option  grants.

     The  Committee designed the current EICP that links payout with stockholder
interests.  The  Committee reviews the EICP annually. The Compensation Committee
establishes  corporate performance objectives at the beginning of each year. For
2003,  the  primary  corporate  financial performance objective was based on the
Company  attaining a certain target Earnings Per Share ("EPS") level. EPS levels
below  the  target  level  result  in  no  EICP  payment  being made. EPS levels
exceeding  the  target  by  specified  percentages may result in increasing EICP
payments  based  on  a  four-tiered  structure.  In  2003, the named executives,
including  Mr.  Forsythe were eligible to receive an EICP payment based on NBT's
reported  EPS.  The  Committee may, at their discretion, modify or interpret the
plan from time to time, to negate the effects of certain non-recurring increases
or  decreases in the EPS level. For example in 2002, the favorable effect on EPS
attributed  to  the  adoption of a new FASB pronouncement was not considered, in
determining  the  payments.

     The  purpose  of  NBT's  non-qualified  stock  option plan is to provide an
additional  incentive  to  certain  NBT Officers to work to maximize stockholder
value.  Stock  options  vest 40% after one year and in equal increments over the
next three years. This approach is designed to act as a retention device for key
employees  and  to  encourage  employees  to  take  into  account  the long-term
interests  of  NBT. The guidelines used in 2003 by the Compensation Committee in
making  the  stock  option  grants  to  Mr.  Forsythe  and other named Executive
Officers  of  NBT  took  into  account  the  duties  and responsibilities of the
individuals  and  the  advice  of  our  independent  compensation consultant. In
January  2003, the named executives received options to purchase an aggregate of
98,700  shares of common stock at exercise prices equal to the fair market value
on  the  respective date of grant. In January 2004, the CEO and named executives
received  options  to  purchase an aggregate of 84,601 shares of common stock at


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exercise  prices equal to the fair market value on the respective date of grant.
The  reduction  in  option shares is primarily the result of the increase of the
share  price of the Company's stock at the grant date as compared to last year's
share  price.

OTHER.  In  addition to the compensation paid to Executive Officers as described
above,  Executive  Officers  received, along with and on the same terms as other
employees,  certain  benefits  pursuant  to  our  401(k)/ESOP.  All of our named
executives  were eligible to participate in the 401(k)/ESOP and were 100% vested
during  2003.  The 401(k)/ESOP Plan provides that an eligible employee may elect
to  defer  up  to  the Internal Revenue Code Section 402(g) limit, of his or her
salary  for  retirement (subject to a maximum limitation for 2004 of $13,000 and
2003  of  $12,000),  and that we will provide a matching contribution of 100% of
the  first  3%  of  the  employee's deferred amount. In addition, we may make an
additional discretionary matching contribution on behalf of participants who are
employed  on  the  last day of the plan year and who completed a year of service
during  the  plan  year  based  on the financial performance of the Company. For
2003,  discretionary  contributions of $593,730 (including the named executives)
were  made  for eligible participants, in January 2004. These contributions were
made  in  the  form  of Company stock. Compensation taken into account under the
Plan cannot exceed $205,000 for 2004, and $200,000 for 2003. Our Board may amend
or  terminate  this  Plan  at  any  time.

CEO  COMPENSATION.  The  Compensation Committee, in determining the compensation
for  the Chief Executive Officer, considers NBT's size and complexity, financial
condition  and  results, including progress in meeting strategic objectives. The
Chief Executive Officer's fiscal 2003 salary was $425,000, an increase of 13.3%,
compared  to  $375,000 in 2002. NBT annually retains an independent compensation
consultant,  and  in that regard received an opinion that the total compensation
was  reasonable  in  comparison  to the total compensation provided by similarly
situated publicly traded financial institutions. The Compensation Committee also
sought  the advice of that consultant in connection with the grant of options in
fiscal 2003. For the fiscal year 2003, the Compensation Committee concluded that
total  compensation for the Chief Executive Officer was reasonable in comparison
to  similarly  situated  publicly  traded  financial  institutions.

INTERNAL  REVENUE  CODE  (IRC)  SECTION  162(M). In 1993, the IRC was amended to
disallow  publicly  traded  companies  from  receiving  a  tax  deduction  on
compensation  paid to executive Officers in excess of $1 million (section 162(m)
of the IRC), unless, among other things, the compensation meets the requirements
for  performance-based  compensation. In structuring NBT's compensation programs
and  in  determining  executive  compensation,  the  Committee  takes  into
consideration  the  deductibility  limit  for  compensation.

MEMBERS OF THE COMPENSATION AND BENEFITS COMMITTEE:
Chairman:  Andrew S. Kowalczyk, Jr.

Members:   Patricia  T.  Civil
           William C. Gumble
           Michael M. Murphy
           Joseph G. Nasser
           William L. Owens
           Joseph A. Santangelo
           Paul O. Stillman

CERTAIN RELATIONSHIPS AND RELATED PARTY TRANSACTIONS

From  time to time, NBT Bank makes loans to its Directors and Executive Officers
and related persons or entities. It is the belief of Management that these loans
are  made in the ordinary course of business, are made on substantially the same
terms,  including interest rates and collateral, as those prevailing at the time
for  comparable  transactions  with other persons, and neither involve more than
normal risk of collectability nor present other unfavorable features.

     The law firm of Kowalczyk, Tolles & Deery, LLP, of which Director Andrew S.
Kowalczyk,  Jr.,  is  a  partner,  provided legal services to us and NBT Bank in
2003.  We  paid  $109,427  in fees for services received from this firm. The law
firms  of  Harris  Beach  LLP,  of which Director William L. Owens is a partner;
Oliver,  Price  &  Rhodes,  of  which  Director Paul D. Horger is a partner; and
Needle,  Goldenziel  and  Pascale,  of  which  Director  Gene E. Goldenziel is a
partner, also provided legal services to us in 2003. The amounts paid to each of
these entities was less than the established reporting thresholds.

PERFORMANCE  GRAPH

The  following  graph  compares  the  cumulative total stockholder return (i.e.,
price  change,  reinvestment  of cash dividends and stock dividends received) on
our  common stock against the cumulative total return of the NASDAQ Stock Market
(U.S.  Companies)  Index  and  the  Index for NASDAQ Financial Stocks. The stock
performance graph assumes that $100 was invested on December 31, 1998. The graph
further assumes the reinvestment of dividends into additional shares of the same
class  of  equity  securities  at the frequency with which dividends are paid on
such securities during the relevant fiscal year. The yearly points marked on the
horizontal axis correspond to December 31 of that year. We calculate each of the
referenced  indices  in  the same manner. All are market-capitalization-weighted
indices,  so  companies  judged  by  the market to be more important (i.e., more
valuable)  count  for  more  in  all  indices.


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  COMPARISON OF FIVE YEAR CUMULATIVE TOTAL RETURN AMONG NBT BANCORP INC., THE
INDEX FOR NASDAQ FINANCIAL STOCKS, AND THE NASDAQ STOCK MARKET (U.S. COMPANIES)
                                      INDEX

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DATA:
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Ticker           Name             4 Qtr 98    4 Qtr 99   4 Qtr 00   4 Qtr 01   4 Qtr 02   4 Qtr 03
                                                                     
NBTB    NBT Bancorp              $    100.00  $   72.22  $   71.85  $   74.27  $   91.12  $  118.48
NDF     NASDAQ Financial Stocks  $    100.00  $   92.80  $  105.33  $  111.23  $  109.47  $  143.54
CCMP    NASDAQ Composite Index   $    100.00  $  186.09  $  113.19  $   89.66  $   61.67  $   92.97


                                    DATE         VALUE
        NBT STOCK                 12/31/1998  $  100.00
                                  12/31/1999  $   72.22
                                  12/31/2000  $   71.85
                                  12/31/2001  $   74.27
                                  12/31/2002  $   91.12
                                  12/31/2003  $  118.48


RISK  MANAGEMENT  COMMITTEE  REPORT

Our  Risk  Management  Committee,  which  functions  as  our audit committee, is
comprised  of  nine  directors who are not Officers or employees of NBT. Each of
the  members  of  the Risk Management Committee is an independent director under
SEC Regulation and Rule 4200(a)(14) of the Nasdaq Stock Market. No member of the
Risk  Management  Committee  serves  on three or more audit committees. The Risk
Management  Committee held four meetings during 2003. The meetings were designed
to  facilitate  and  encourage private communication between the Risk Management
Committee,  the  internal  auditors and our independent public accountants, KPMG
LLP.

     Our  Risk  Management  Committee  acts  under a written charter adopted and
approved  by  our  Board.  The  Risk  Management  Committee  has  performed  the
procedures  specified  in  the  attached  charter  regarding the preparation and
review  of  our  consolidated financial statements as of and for the three years
ended  December  31,  2003.  Among the procedures performed, the Risk Management
Committee  has:

     -    Reviewed  and  discussed the audited consolidated financial statements
          with  NBT  Management;
     -    Discussed  with  KPMG  LLP,  our  independent  auditors,  the  matters
          required  to be discussed by Statements on Auditing Standards (SAS) 61
          (Codification  of  Statements on Auditing Standards, AU Sec. 380); and
     -    Received the written disclosures and the letter from KPMG LLP required
          by  Independence  Standards  Board  Standard  No.  1  (Independence
          Discussions  with  Audit  Committees)  and discussed with KPMG LLP its
          independence.

     On  the  basis  of  its  review  as  specified  in the attached charter and
discussions  referred  to  in  this  section  of  the  proxy statement, the Risk
Management  Committee has recommended to our Board that the audited consolidated
financial  statements  be  included  in our Annual Report Form 10-K for the year
ended  December  31,  2003  for  filing  with  the  SEC.

MEMBERS OF THE RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE:
Chairman:    Joseph G. Nasser

Members:     Richard Chojnowski
             William C. Gumble
             Janet H. Ingraham
             John C. Mitchell
             Van Ness D. Robinson
             Joseph A. Santangelo
             Paul O. Stillman
             Patricia T. Civil (*)

(*) Patricia T. Civil was designated as NBT's "audit committee financial expert"
upon  joining  the  Committee  and  Board  in  May  2003.  Ms.  Civil  meets the
independence standards identified above.


18                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

NBT'S  INDEPENDENT  AUDITORS

Our Risk Management Committee has appointed KPMG LLP as our independent auditors
to  audit  our  consolidated  financial  statements  for  the fiscal year ending
December  31,  2004. KPMG LLP has served as our independent auditors since 1987.
We expect representatives of KPMG LLP to be present at our annual meeting. Those
representatives  will  have an opportunity to make a statement if they desire to
do  so  and  will  also  be  available  to  respond  to  appropriate  questions.

AUDIT  FEES  AND  NON-AUDIT  FEES.  The  following  table  presents  fees  for
professional  audit  services rendered by KPMG LLP for the audit of NBT's annual
consolidated  financial  statements for the fiscal years ended December 31, 2003
and  2002, and fees billed for other services provided by KPMG LLP. Prior to any
new  engagement representing a permissible audit or non-audit activity, approval
of  the  Risk  Management  Committee  is  required.



                                 2003       2002
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Audit Fees                     $363,000  $  329,000
Audit related fees (1)         $ 20,000  $   30,000
                               --------  ----------
Audit and Audit related fees   $383,000  $  359,000
Tax fees (2)                   $149,555  $  554,270
All other fees (3)             $      0  $   94,739
                               --------  ----------
Total Fees                     $532,555  $1,008,009
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(1)  Audit  related  fees  consisted of fees for audits of employee benefit plan
     financial  statements.
(2)  Tax  fees  consisted of fees for tax return preparation, tax compliance and
     tax  planning  services.
(3)  All  other  fees  in  2002  consisted  of  fees for mortgage process review
     analysis.


AUDIT  COMMITTEE  REVIEW.  Our  Risk Management Committee has considered whether
KPMG's  provision  of the non-audit services summarized in the preceding section
is  compatible  with  maintaining  KPMG's  independence.

OTHER  MATTERS

STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS FOR THE 2005 ANNUAL MEETING

Stockholder  proposals  submitted pursuant to Rule 14a-8 of the Exchange Act for
inclusion  in  our  proxy  statement for the 2005 Annual Meeting of Stockholders
must be received by NBT by November 28, 2004. Each proposal must comply with the
requirements as to form and substance established by the SEC for such a proposal
to  be  included  in  the proxy statement and form of proxy. SEC rules set forth
standards  as to what stockholder proposals corporations must include in a proxy
statement  for  an  annual  meeting.

     If  the  proposal  is  submitted pursuant to the Company's Bylaws, in which
case  the notice of the proposal must meet certain requirements set forth in our
Bylaws  and we are not required to include the proposals in our proxy materials,
the  proposal  must  be  received  on or after January 31, 2005 and on or before
March  2,  2005.

OTHER  MATTERS

As  of the date of this proxy statement, our Board knows of no matters that will
be  presented  for  consideration at our meeting other than as described in this
proxy  statement.  If  any other matters should properly come before our meeting
and  be  voted upon, the enclosed proxies will be deemed to confer discretionary
authority  on the individuals named as proxies to vote the shares represented by
those  proxies  as to those matters. The persons named as proxies intend to vote
in  accordance  with  the  determination  of  the  majority  vote  of our Board.

     Upon  receipt  of  a  written  request,  the  Company  will  furnish to any
stockholder  without  charge  a copy of the Company's Annual Report on form 10-K
for  the  year ended December 31, 2003 and exhibits thereto required to be filed
with  the  SEC  under  the Securities Exchange Act of 1934. Such written request
should  be  directed  to:

          Michael J. Chewens
          Senior Executive Vice President,
          Chief Financial Officer and Corporate Secretary
          NBT Bancorp Inc.
          52 South Broad Street
          Norwich, NY 13815


19                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

APPENDIX  A


NBT BANCORP INC.
RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE POLICY STATEMENT AND CHARTER
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PURPOSE  OF  THE  COMMITTEE:

The  Board of Directors of NBT Bancorp Inc. ("NBT" or the "Company") established
the  RISK  MANAGEMENT  COMMITTEE  for  the  purpose  of  assisting  the Board in
fulfilling  its  oversight  responsibilities  to  NBT,  its subsidiaries and its
shareholders  for  the  Company's accounting and financial reporting process and
the  audits of the financial statements of the Company and to meet the Company's
regulatory  and  legal  requirements.  The  Committee's  primary  duties  and
responsibilities  are  to:

     -    Monitor  the  integrity  of  and  oversee the Company's accounting and
          financial  reporting  processes  and  systems  of  internal  control
          regarding  finance,  accounting  and  legal  compliance.

     -    Ensure  the  independence and monitor the performance of the Company's
          independent  auditors and the Risk Management Division (which includes
          the  internal  audit  department)  personnel.

     -    Assume  the  direct  responsibility for the appointment, compensation,
          retention,  and  oversight  of  the  work  of  any  registered  public
          accounting  firm  engaged  by  the  Company  (including  resolution of
          disagreements between management and the independent auditor regarding
          financial  reporting) for the purpose of preparing or issuing an audit
          report  or  related  work.  Each  registered  public  accounting  firm
          employed  by  the  Company  shall  report  directly  to the Committee.

     -    Be  directly  responsible  for  the  appointment,  compensation  and
          oversight  of  the  Senior  Risk  Management  Division  Officer.

     -    Provide  an  avenue  of  communication among the independent auditors,
          Management,  the  Risk Management Division and the Board of Directors.


COMMITTEE MEMBERSHIP AND INDEPENDENCE:

THE RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE WILL BE COMPRISED OF:

     -    A  minimum  of  three  directors,  each  of  whom  meets the financial
          literacy  requirements  of  Section  36(g)1(C)(i)  of  the  rules  and
          regulations  of  the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation, the Nasdaq
          Stock  Market  and  any  other applicable rules or regulations and the
          independence requirements under applicable rules of the Securities and
          Exchange  Commission  ("SEC"),  FDIC  and  Nasdaq  Stock  Market.

     -    At  least  one  member  who  is  an "audit committee financial expert"
          within  the  meaning of Sec. 407 of the Sarbanes-Oxley Act of 2002 and
          the  rules  of  the  SEC  thereunder.

The Chairman and members of the Committee shall be appointed by the Board on the
recommendation  of  the Nominating and Corporate Governance Committee. Committee
members  may be removed and replaced by the Board, but all replacements shall be
made on the recommendation of the Nominating and Corporate Governance Committee.

INDEPENDENCE:

THE  RISK  MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE HAS ADOPTED A DEFINITION OF INDEPENDENCE THAT IS
CONSISTENT  WITH  SEC, THE SARBANES- OXLEY ACT OF 2002 (AND THE RELATED RULES OF
THE  SEC  THEREUNDER),  NATIONAL  ASSOCIATION OF SECURITIES DEALERS ("NASD") AND
OTHER  APPLICABLE  REQUIREMENTS.  IN  BRIEF:

     "Members  of  the Committee shall be considered independent if they have no
     relationship  to  NBT  that  may  interfere  with  the  exercise  of  their
     independence  from  Management  and  the  Company."

The  Board  of  Directors  will  assess  the  Committee members' independence in
accordance  with  the  applicable  rules and regulations on an annual basis. All
Committee  members  will  reaffirm and attest to their independence on an annual
basis.


20                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

COMMITTEE POWERS, AUTHORITY, DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES:

The purpose of this Policy Statement and Charter is to confirm the authority and
organization  of the Risk Management Committee of the Board of Directors of NBT.
The  Policy  Statement/Charter  will:

     -    Be  approved  by  the  full  Board  of  Directors.
     -    Specify  the  scope  of  the  Committee's  responsibilities.

     -    Specify  how  the  Committee  carries  out  those  responsibilities,
          including  structure,  processes  and  membership  requirements.

     -    Require  an  annual  review and reassessment regarding the adequacy of
          the  Policy  Statement/Charter  and this Committee (annual reviews and
          reassessments  will  be  reviewed  and  ratified  by  Nominating  and
          Corporate  Governance  Committee  and  ultimately  the  full  Board).

     -    Be  published  at  least  every  three  years  in  accordance with SEC
          regulations.

THE  RISK  MANAGEMENT  COMMITTEE  SHALL:

     -    Meet  the  requirements  set  forth  by  the  SEC,  the NASD and other
          applicable  government  and  regulatory  agencies.

     -    Report  regularly  and  directly  to  the  Board  of  Directors.

     -    Be  selected  by  and  composed of independent members of the Board of
          Directors.

     -    Hold  quarterly  meetings  and  such  other special meetings as deemed
          necessary.

     -    Meet  privately  in  executive  session  at  all  meetings,  with  the
          independent  auditors  and the Senior Risk Management Division Officer
          to  discuss  any  matters  that  the  Committee  believes  should  be
          discussed.

     -    Have  access  to and the authority to engage outside parties as needed
          to  advise  and  assist  in  Committee  matters.

     -    Have  access  to the independent auditors and Risk Management Division
          personnel  (who  will  be  independent  and  held  accountable to this
          Committee  and  the  Board  of  Directors).

IN  GENERAL,  THE RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE SHALL BE RESPONSIBLE TO THE BOARD OF
DIRECTORS  FOR  THE  FOLLOWING:

     -    Review,  as  required by FDICIA Sec.112, Management's annual assertion
          with  respect  to  the  system of internal controls at certain banking
          subsidiaries.  Review  the  independent  auditors'  reports  and
          attestations  regarding  the  same.

     -    Advise the Board with respect to the Company's policies and procedures
          regarding  compliance  with  applicable  laws  and  regulations.

     -    Review and annually approve the Company's Code of Business Conduct and
          Ethics.  Review  for  potential  conflict  of  interest situations and
          approve,  on  an ongoing basis, related party transactions required to
          be  disclosed  pursuant  to  Item 404 of SEC Regulation S-K. Since NBT
          Bancorp  through  its subsidiary, NBT Bank, N.A. is in the business of
          lending  to  its  customers,  who  include our directors, Officers and
          employees,  adherence  to  the  requirements  set  forth in Regulation
          promulgated  by  the Board of Governors of the Federal Reserve Bank is
          mandated.

     -    Provide  governance,  guidance and oversight of the Company's internal
          control  structure.

     -    Review  all  regulatory  examination  reports  and required Management
          responses.

     -    Review  the  internal  audit  function including coordination of plans
          with the independent auditors. Approve the annual internal audit plan.
          Review  progress  made  throughout  the  year in completing the annual
          internal  audit  plan.  Consider  and  review audit reports issued and
          Management  responses  received or updated since the previous meeting.

     -    Review  and  assess  the  annual  Trust  Division  Audit(s).

     -    Review  with  the  Senior Loan Review Officer the results of completed
          reviews  and  the status of reviews in progress. Reviews are conducted
          for  the  purpose  of  reporting  on the quality of credits and credit
          administration.

     -    Review  with  the  Compliance  Officer  (as  needed) the status of the
          Company's  Regulatory  Compliance  Program.

     -    Review  the  Security  Officer's  annual  report  on the status of the
          security  at certain banking subsidiaries, in compliance with the Bank
          Protection  Act  of  1968  and  OCC  Regulation  12  CFR  21.

     -    Establish  procedures  for  the  receipt,  retention  and treatment of
          complaints  received  by  the  Company  regarding accounting, internal
          accounting  controls,  or  auditing  matters  and  the  confidential,
          anonymous  submission  by  employees  of the Company or any subsidiary
          regarding  questionable  accounting  or  auditing  matters.


21                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

     -    Maintain  a concurring role in the appointment/dismissal of the Senior
          Risk  Management  Division  Officer  through  evaluations  of  his/her
          performance  and  independence.

     -    Engage  an  independent consulting firm to assess the effectiveness of
          the  Audit,  Compliance,  Security  and/or Loan Review Departments and
          incur such expense at its own discretion at such time as the Committee
          deems  it  necessary.

     -    Take  all  action  necessary, advisable or proper to perform Committee
          duties  for  each  Bank  and  non-Bank  subsidiary.


WITH  REGARD  TO THE COMPANY'S INDEPENDENT AUDITORS (I.E., THE REGISTERED PUBLIC
ACCOUNTING  FIRMS  COVERED BY THIS CHARTER AND SECTION 10A OF THE SECURITIES AND
EXCHANGE ACT OF 1934), THE RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE SHALL BE RESPONSIBLE TO THE
BOARD  OF  DIRECTORS  FOR  THE  FOLLOWING:

     -    Ensure that the independent auditors are ultimately accountable to the
          Board  of  Directors  and  the  Committee.

     -    Select,  appoint,  oversee  and  authorize funding for the independent
          auditors.

     -    Prior  to  and  during their annual review, meet with and evaluate the
          independent  auditors.  Discuss  with  the  independent auditors their
          audit  plans,  staffing  and  scope  for  the  annual  audit.

     -    Review  and  pre-approve all audit and permissible non-audit services.
          The  Committee  shall  review  audit  fees  and  compensation  for all
          services  performed.

     -    Review  the  information  required  by Statement on Auditing Standards
          ("SAS")  No.  61  on  an  annual  basis with the independent auditors.
          Request  that  the independent auditors review, in accordance with SAS
          No.  100,  the  SEC  Form  10- Q's, prior to their ling and update any
          material  changes in SAS No. 61 information on a quarterly basis. Such
          updates to SAS No. 61 information may be communicated to the Committee
          Chairman.

     -    On  an  annual  basis, the Committee shall review and discuss with the
          independent  auditors all significant relationships they have with the
          Company,  which  could  impair the auditors' independence. Independent
          auditors  shall communicate their independence in writing on an annual
          basis  in  accordance with Independent Standards Board Standard No. 1.

     -    Assure regular rotation of the lead and/or concurring audit partner in
          accordance  with  applicable  law.

     -    Review  the  proposed hiring of employees of the Company's independent
          auditor  or  former  employees  who  have  worked  for  the  Company's
          independent  auditor  within  the  past  three  years.

     -    Take  all  action  necessary, advisable or proper to perform Committee
          duties  for  each  Bank  and  non-Bank  subsidiary.

OTHER DUTIES FOR WHICH THE RISK MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE SHALL BE RESPONSIBLE TO THE
BOARD  OF  DIRECTORS  INCLUDE  THE  FOLLOWING:

     -    Review  the  Company's  quarterly  unaudited  and  annual  audited
          consolidated  financial statements prior to their filing with the SEC.
          The  review  should include discussion with Management and independent
          auditors  of  significant  issues  regarding accounting principles and
          judgements.  Also,  the Committee shall receive and review the results
          of  the  annual  audit  and any other required communications from the
          independent  auditors.  Based  on  such  reviews  and discussions, the
          Committee  shall  advise  the  Board  whether  it  recommends that the
          audited consolidated financial statements be included in the Company's
          SEC  Form  10-K  to  be  filed  with  the  SEC.

     -    Meet  at  least  annually  with  Management,  Risk Management Division
          personnel and the independent auditors to review NBT's major financial
          risk  exposures  and  the  steps  Management  has taken to monitor and
          control  such  exposures.

     -    On at least an annual basis, review with appropriate parties any legal
          matters  that  could  have  a significant impact on the Organization's
          financial  statements,  the  Company's compliance with applicable laws
          and  regulations, and inquiries received from regulators or government
          agencies.

     -    Prepare  the  report(s)  required  by the rules of applicable agencies
          including  the  SEC  and  NASD  to be included in the Company's annual
          proxy  statement.

The  Committee  may,  at  its  discretion, request any special investigations of
conflicts  of  interest, regulatory compliance, or any other significant matters
of  concern.  The Committee has the ability to retain, at the Company's expense,
special  legal,  accounting  or  other  consultants  or  experts  that  it deems
necessary  in  the  performance  of  its  duties.  The  Committee  will,  at its
discretion,  meet  privately  with  the  independent auditors, Management and/or
members  of  the Risk Management Division. The Committee may delegate certain of
the  above responsibilities to its Chairman or other Committee members, however,
this  in  no  way,  relieves  the  Committee  of  overall  responsibility.


22                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

     While the Risk Management Committee has the responsibilities and powers set
forth  in  this  Charter, it is not the duty of the Committee to plan or conduct
audits  or to determine independently of Management and the independent auditors
that  the  Company's consolidated financial statements are complete and accurate
and  are  in  accordance  with  generally  accepted  accounting  principles.



23                                             PROXY STATEMENT: NBT BANCORP INC.

NBT BANCORP

NBT BANCORP INC.
24 CHURCH STREET
CANAJOHARIE, NY 13317

VOTE BY INTERNET - www.proxyvote.com
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Use  the  Internet  to  transmit  your  voting  instructions  and for electronic
delivery  of  information  up until 11:59 P.M. Eastern Time on May 3, 2004. Have
your proxy card in hand when you access the web site and follow the instructions
to  obtain  your  records  and  to create an electronic voting instruction form.

VOTE BY PHONE - 1-800-690-6903
Use any touch-tone telephone to transmit your voting instructions up until 11:59
P.M. Eastern Time on May 3, 2004. Have your proxy card in hand when you call and
then  follow  the  instructions.

VOTE BY MAIL
Mark,  sign  and date your proxy card and return it in the postage-paid envelope
we've  provided  or  return  it  to NBT Bancorp, Inc., c/o ADP, 51 Mercedes Way,
Edgewood,  NY  11717






TO VOTE, MARK BLOCKS BELOW IN BLUE OR BLACK INK AS FOLLOWS:
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NBT BANCORP INC.

  VOTE ON DIRECTORS

  2. To elect the five director nominees listed below
    (Proposal 2):
                                                 
                             For  Withold  For All  To withhold authority to vote for a particular
                             All  All      Except   nominee,  mark  "For All Except" and write the
                                                    nominee's number on the line below:

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     Nominees:

     01) Daryl R. Forsthye
     02) William C. Gumble
     03) William L. Owens
     04) Van Ness D. Robinson
     05) Patricia T. Civil

  VOTE ON PROPOSALS
                                                             For   Against  Abstain

                                                              [ ]    [ ]    [ ]


1.   To fix the number of directors at sixteen (Proposal 1)

3.   The proxies are authorized to vote in accordance with the majority vote of
     our Board, upon such other business that may properly come before the
     meeting.


Please  sign  here exactly as name(s) appear(s) above. When signing as attorney,
executor,  administrator, trustee, guardian, or in any other fiduciary capacity,
give  full  title. If more than one person acts as trustee, all should sign. All
joint  owners  must  sign.

For address changes and/or comments,
please check this box and write them
on the back  where  indicated                                    [ ]

Please indicate if you plan to attend this meeting.   [ ]  [ ]

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                                NBT BANCORP INC.

              Proxy Solicited on Behalf of the Board of Directors

The  undersigned  hereby appoints Joseph Benenati and Duward Crandall and either
of  them,  with full power of substitution, proxies to represent the undersigned
at  the  Annual  Meeting  of  Stockholders of NBT Bancorp Inc. to be held at the
Binghamton  Regency at One Sarbro Square, Binghamton, NY 13901 on May 4, 2004 at
10:00  a.m.  local  time,  or at any adjournment or postponement of the meeting,
with all power which the undersigned would possess if personally present, and to
vote  all  shares of NBT's common stock which the undersigned may be entitled to
vote  at the meeting upon the proposals on the reverse side, as described in the
accompanying proxy statement, in accordance with the following instructions and,
in  accordance  with the majority vote of our Board, upon any other matters that
may  properly  come before the meeting. THIS PROXY, WHEN PROPERLY EXECUTED, WILL
BE  VOTED  AS  DIRECTED  BY  THE  UNDERSIGNED.  IF  NO DIRECTION IS INDICATED, A
PROPERLY  EXECUTED  PROXY  WILL BE VOTED FOR THE PROPOSLAS LISTED ON THE REVERSE
SIDE. THE UNDERSIGNED SHAREHOLDER HEREBY REVOKES ANY PROXY OR PROXIES HERETOFORE
GIVEN.

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